The Double Standard

"We are comfortable with the double standard."

As many of you probably have noticed, some have commented on and yet others have inquired about by way of e-mail, Ally did and does continue to state this about our HW relationship. Sometime back in October, occasional reader and commentator Merlin asked how Ally feels about me with another woman. I just reread my response and thought it relevant to the "double standard" issue. That is a good question. Ally has responded to that question a number of different ways. I have heard that 1) I can have sex with who ever I want, 2) nobody and 3) a pre agreed and identified person(s) that we already know. I guess I can, but it really doesn't matter. I have little interest in being with other women sexually. Sure I look. I even talk. Hell, I even dance and flirt. But, in my first marriage, I behaved very poorly, and probably slept with nearly as many women after I was married than I had before I was married. That is not the case this time. Frankly, Ally is all the woman I can handle at the moment. ;) Of course, should we get together with a cute couple that wants to play, that is a different story. I liked Merlin's response to my answer.
A good answer--if your pleasure comes from watching her enjoy sex with others, her policy toward your outside activities is irrelevant.

HNT Friday Bonus

What do you think we were doing when this picture was taken?

Blog Hits

Amazing. Since September 25, 2008, when I added a couple of different traffic counters to this blog, we have, by one counter, had over 42,000 hits on this blog.
42,000 hits. That seems like a lot to me. I know for a fact that Bacon probably accounts for a third of those and I, for a third of his blog hits. I mean, I can hardly make it through the day with out visiting that Bacon and Lettuce to view those sexy pics of his beautiful wife. I probably visit, hmmm, maybe six or seven hundred times a day. I pull over in traffic and even leave meetings to take a peek. lol
So, in spite of the repeat hits, 42,000 visitors is a bunch. Thanks everyone for visiting. It is kind of heady stuff to think that so many people have read of our little encounters and looked at my scantily clad Hotwife.
It is somewhat arousing too!

HNT.........

Just a little peek of one of my favorite views. And those astute followers, this picture was taken the evening Ally came home after her last "meeting" with Dan.

Sunday reflections on HW

Obviously, I am married to what is often called a Hotwife. On the rarest of occasions, I wonder to myself if we are on the extreme fringe of social norms in this aspect of our lives. Then I take a quick visit over to ourhotwives.org or literotica.com and realize that many others share my interest in this lifestyle if only in fantasy if not reality. The following introduction to a story was posted on literotica.com this morning. While perhaps fiction, it does on many levels capture where I am on this subject.
"I can't imagine who wouldn't enjoy seeing their wife service another man's cock. Particularly if it were a really big one, and especially if she was really, really into it.

It did take me some time, eight years in fact, to convince Kathy that 1) she really is a dirty cock-hungry, cum-drinking whore, and 2) that this is absolutely fine with me so long as when she's seeing to someone else's cock I can either 1) watch, 2) listen or 3) get told all the juicy detail afterwards. I have no interest in having it off with anyone else's wife, I just like to watch mine getting off on cock. I like also to make love to her afterwards. Feeling my naked cock inside her warm wet pussy is a real turn on, and when she has a cunt full of sticky cum from several other guys inside her and running down her legs, well it's hard to describe. For me, it's a real pleasure."

From Kathy the Greedy Girl by Delphi999

For those of you that regularly visit this blog, clearly I do not share all of the above sentiments posted on literotica by Delphi999. I would never refer to my sexy wife and best friend as a whore. And we have not had the pleasure of having several guys' cum running down her thighs. But the thought is arousing for me as it might be for you.

So as continue forth this delightful, albeit cold, Sunday I share these thoughts with you. I am very proud of my sexy little wife. This weekend, I posted these comments on ourhotwives.org as to my reasoning and rational, not to mention desire for this lifestyle.

I most certainly would prefer to have an open marriage, one made of love and happiness with a wife whose embraces her sexuality, knows what she wants, and has it with out secrets and lies. This is why being married to a HW works for us. Many women are tempted to step outside of their marriage at some time. Some are presented the opportunity frequently. And of those that are, I believe most ultimately succumb to that temptation at some point. If it is almost inevitable, why risk ruining a marriage by hiding behind the mask of monogamy and wrapping oneself in a blanket of deceit?

I also posted this comment:

Does she let me play? Yes and no. It is largely theoretical. I haven't really played with another woman since we have been married. I haven't really wanted to. The opportunity I suppose has been there but it hasn't really presented itself nor has the desire and I am more about her. She tells me of certain people, "summer friends" as I refer to them, that I am "allowed" to have sex with. But she doesn't afford me the carte blanche that I do her in this regard. She would like me to consult with her before I have sex with another woman. I suppose that if I did have a encounter with a girl and then told her, she would ultimately be OK with it. In September while I was in TX,, she had sex with Dan and then Joey, and then a few days later with the random guy in the bar in the city. She told me then that I should have a another woman and that I deserve it. As you may have noticed, we have a term for this ....."We are comfortable with the double standard."It works for us. Some might say this is a cuckold relationship. I disagree. I have mostly always been attracted to more sexually active women. I find a women that knows her sexuality, and enjoys sex frequently and openly sexual to be very desirable, and usually, a very good lover. And frankly, while I don't usually get to watch my sexy little hotwife has sex with another man, I do so enjoy when she returns to me to briefly tell me of the encounter and I am presented with a very sexy, horny and desirable women who wants me so. Did I mention that I really like the "sloppy" part too?

So as I sit here ready to continue with my list of projects today, I think of the following things that I do enjoy about this path we have chosen for us.

1. Ally does not play with others regularly.
2. Ally is highly selective as to her choice of partners.
3. I have no big desire to be with another woman at this point. I may just not have met one as of late that rings my bells the way Ally does for me.
4. I enjoy when Ally finds a new friend.
5. With a curious blend of excitement, jealousy and arousal I watch her kiss another man, whether for the first or numerous times.
6. I enjoy when Ally meets alone with her new friend.
7. I really enjoy hearing of Ally's encounter with another man in a hotel or some other place. I enjoy hearing of their passion, of her embracing him, feeling his cock, taking in her mouth, spreading her legs for him and taking his hard cock inside of her.
8. I like when she cums with another man.
9. I like sliding my hard cock inside her after she has fucked another guy and feeling that hot wet cum filled pussy around my cock.
10. And yes, I do so love to watch, listen and participate when she is with another guy.

Cute pecker.....

Last night after work, Ally and I were having a couple of beers and talking a little about Joey, her on again and off again FB. She mentioned that he told her yesterday that he had a wonderful time with us on Friday night and had a lot of fun. Somewhere into the conversation, and with the benefit of a fair amount of beer, I said that Joey sure a "cute little pecker". Ally didn't even hesitate when she started her reply. Yes, she thinks it just so cute too. And the other night, "he sure had a stiffy". She said it's not very big, not long and not thick, but it is just so cute. She said he is not a good kisser, but she really likes to play "with that cute cock."

Update: This topic came up once again later this week and again last evening before we met some friends while we were out. Ally said to me first that Joey "really has a beautiful cock. I just love the shape of it". Last evening she added that it is a "cock made for a virgin. All virgins should experience a cock like Joey's first". I smiled and said "How about my cock?". She laughed and said to me "you never liked being with virgins".
She is right.

A little late for an HNT but I love this picture

I think that Ally looks so hot on the beach in this picture......

Big Friday Night....

Last night, Joey had a room in a smaller upscale hotel in the historic district of the city. We went met in the hotel bar and had a few drinks and then went to this place that he knew of. We were seated at the "third bar" in a rear room. It was very intimate and had these crazy city shadows being cast on the walls from the lights against an old brick building through these huge windows. It was really awesome food and excellent ambiance. Later we stopped at one more bar before heading back to the hotel bar. Yes, I was fairly toasted by the time we walked back to the hotel and still we had more. :) We decided, or Ally decided or who knows who decided that we would go up to the room. We got six more beers, finished our Bourbons and Joey's scotch and headed up. The bar was closing then anyway. We went upstairs and Ally whispered to me that nothing was going to happen. OK. That is fine. But as soon as walked in she took off her pants and hopped into the one of the beds. Joey produced a big robe from the closet and Ally put it on. Joey soon removed his sweater and his pants came off but he kept on a shirt and his maybe his shorts. I said to Ally if she is wearing the robe she should lose her panties. She said no and I took that opportunity to grab the nice little ice bucket and left the room to get some ice leaving them together partially disrobed in the room. I quickly sought out the ice machine, filled and returned. As I was approaching the room, I saw a couple of handsome well dressed black men exiting a nearby room that seemed to be having a party. I had a problem with the key and Ally opened the door as I fumbled with the lock. As I entered the room I told her of the men and she said "Really? Where is this party? Maybe I should go check it out!" I laughed, knowing that she might just be a little but tipsy. I saw that she still had on her panties. I reminded her that the hotel had a rule about panties and robes being worn in the rooms. So she took them off. Then she got off the bed and kissed me. Then she jumped on Joey's bed and began to kiss him and soon started to feel him up. I took off my pants and boxers and got on the other side of Ally. We soon were both kissing her and I grabbed her breast. She loves to have me squeeze her breast. While I was doing this I could feel that he was playing with her pussy and she with his cock as all sorts of hands and legs and other pieces were brushing against my legs. Ally took off her sweater but left on her T and I stripped the rest of the way except for a long sleeve T and pushed back the covers and went down on her. She was so wet and quickly she turned slightly and took his hard cock in her mouth. She turned around and got on her knees pushing her cute little ass and shaved pussy in the air and I took another little lick and even small one of her ass. Hmm...a little naughty I suppose but I loved it. She then just climbed up on Joey, not two feet from me and slid her wet pussy on him for maybe a minute before taking him inside of her. I watched for I suppose a minute or two and then took off my last shirt and walked around for a bit and watched them fuck. I then lay on the other bed still watching them as she rolled over he was soon on top of her. He clenched his ass muscles and he began to thrust into her, varying his rhythm and speed. They were at a slight angle and then with him on top. I have this image of them at an angle, his very pale white back, ass and legs in contrast to her somewhat darker, yet faded tan skin, her legs on both sides of his torso, faces obscured. He would occasionally glance over at me, and I had begun to stroke myself watching them. She then climbed back upon him and fucked him hard and fast, her cute little ass bouncing off his legs. She looked beautiful, her hair and fine body silhouetted against the light from the corner hotel room's light through the window. I think that I got up and walked around for a moment before walking into the bathroom to give them a little privacy. I heard those sounds she makes as she approaches her own orgasm and then knew she had her first of what turned out to be many. I slowly return watching Joey plunging in and out of her. He then pulled her up towards him as he leaned back on the bed, they both still connected as he did the same. A very sexy move that allowed both of the bodies exposed yet connected at once. I leaned down and kissed Ally and then she took my cock into her mouth while Joey was still in her. As Joey withdrew himself from her, I asked him if he had cum and he said no. I was surprised but I needed to feel her. I spun her around and took a quick lick and then thrust my own achingly hard cock into her. I can't believe that he hadn't cum in her because she was so wet, much as if another cock had just shot a large load inside of her. Joey went to the other bed and watched us for a minute then I said come here and he leaned down and kissed Ally while we fucked each other. Then she grabbed his cock and took it in her mouth. This moment was all too brief but I finally got to watch and briefly fulfill my adult life long fantasy of fucking beautiful sexy women while she sucks another guy. After I kissed Ally's neck and raised my head he had withdrawn. Ally and I continued to fuck and it was pure all out fucking. She was thrusting back at me and I at her in a wonderfully sensual unison. I then withdrew and invited Joey to switch with me and they went at it again. While she was ridding him just as before I rubbed her ass checks and brought my wet thumb against her puckered little opening, thinking how much I wanted to explore this little fantasy. She actually pushed back against my thumb and moaned loudly. But I knew she normally does not wasn't anything to do with anal. I do know one of her big fantasies is to take two guys inside her pussy at once. I think that she probably could, especially as Joey's cock..... (Oh, yes I haven’t spoken much about that have I?) is of the size that she might or probably could accommodate both of us at one time. But, given the late hour, couple with amount of alcohol consumed, and a healthy amount of stage fright I worried that I would probably loose my hard on trying to pry my hard cock into that tight little space next to a potentially unwilling participant in Joey. It was perhaps an opportunity lost or maybe a plan for the next encounter.
Ally had at least a couple more orgasms and we all finally ended up again with her between the two us in the same bed. As she began to fade Joey retreated to the other bed. And while I was still in the mood to play with her, she was had fallen sleep with her very wet pussy against my very hard cock. Tempting as it was, I wasn't going to slide into her at the moment.
She woke me early in the morning and we gathered our things. Ally left Joey a little note thanking him for a fun evening. We went downstairs, had a cup of coffee and had our car pulled around to the door. I looked like hell. I still do. But we drove across the city and went to a diner for some breakfast. As we enjoyed our breakfast I thought how lucky I am to have such a sexy wife that plays as she does and is my best friend.
We got home and soon we played again in our bed. I licked her to a mighty nice orgasm and lasted an incredibly long :) minute or so before I oragsmed and literally poured my cum into her.
We spent today "recovering" and lying in bed. Ally is upstairs showering right now. I left my long sleeve T at the room this morning and I kissed her to run over to Joey's to pick it up.
Is a repeat or something else in the works for tonight or tomorrow? Oh my.......

Wow!

Saturday, January 17, 2009
Wow!!!!
What a night. Yes, we played and play we did. We just got back home. No pictures but what images I have in my mind. I think Ally came five or six times.
More soon! Very soon.......

Friday Encounter With FB leading to a MFM or just drinks?

Friday, January 16, 2009 5:15PM
Late yesterday Ally's often platonic pal and occasional FB Joey sent her an e-mail saying something about going into the city and having drinks. And then in his somewhat predictable way, he mentioned a hotel room. And then he asked her in another e-mail if she wanted to join him. We shared a few laughs over this last night and then I asked her what she told him. "I didn't reply" she said. So I encouraged her to do so and ask what he was thinking. He said he thought it would be fun to get together with the two of us.
We talked about it a bit last night and later while playing in bed (yes....it was a very fun evening! bomp-chicka-bow-bow ) I brought up the possibility of playing with Joey while I was kissing her and thrusting first one, then two, then three and a bit of a fourth finger into my very tight and very wet little wife. She was getting into the Joey talk but really exploded when she told me she really wanted another random encounter like she had when we went out that wonderfully fun Sunday back In September.
Back on topic......today, they exchanged some e-mails and he asked again. She just sent me an e-mail and asked me what she should say. I told her it was up to her but go ahead and say yes.
Chances are we will just have a couple of drinks and that will be it. But then again, we might just find ourselves upstairs with some one this evening...........
And she just called to say it is on and yes........Joey is getting a room.......I wonder what this will all bring. I am not getting my expectations up but I do like Fridays!