Sunday reflections on HW

Obviously, I am married to what is often called a Hotwife. On the rarest of occasions, I wonder to myself if we are on the extreme fringe of social norms in this aspect of our lives. Then I take a quick visit over to ourhotwives.org or literotica.com and realize that many others share my interest in this lifestyle if only in fantasy if not reality. The following introduction to a story was posted on literotica.com this morning. While perhaps fiction, it does on many levels capture where I am on this subject.
"I can't imagine who wouldn't enjoy seeing their wife service another man's cock. Particularly if it were a really big one, and especially if she was really, really into it.

It did take me some time, eight years in fact, to convince Kathy that 1) she really is a dirty cock-hungry, cum-drinking whore, and 2) that this is absolutely fine with me so long as when she's seeing to someone else's cock I can either 1) watch, 2) listen or 3) get told all the juicy detail afterwards. I have no interest in having it off with anyone else's wife, I just like to watch mine getting off on cock. I like also to make love to her afterwards. Feeling my naked cock inside her warm wet pussy is a real turn on, and when she has a cunt full of sticky cum from several other guys inside her and running down her legs, well it's hard to describe. For me, it's a real pleasure."

From Kathy the Greedy Girl by Delphi999

For those of you that regularly visit this blog, clearly I do not share all of the above sentiments posted on literotica by Delphi999. I would never refer to my sexy wife and best friend as a whore. And we have not had the pleasure of having several guys' cum running down her thighs. But the thought is arousing for me as it might be for you.

So as continue forth this delightful, albeit cold, Sunday I share these thoughts with you. I am very proud of my sexy little wife. This weekend, I posted these comments on ourhotwives.org as to my reasoning and rational, not to mention desire for this lifestyle.

I most certainly would prefer to have an open marriage, one made of love and happiness with a wife whose embraces her sexuality, knows what she wants, and has it with out secrets and lies. This is why being married to a HW works for us. Many women are tempted to step outside of their marriage at some time. Some are presented the opportunity frequently. And of those that are, I believe most ultimately succumb to that temptation at some point. If it is almost inevitable, why risk ruining a marriage by hiding behind the mask of monogamy and wrapping oneself in a blanket of deceit?

I also posted this comment:

Does she let me play? Yes and no. It is largely theoretical. I haven't really played with another woman since we have been married. I haven't really wanted to. The opportunity I suppose has been there but it hasn't really presented itself nor has the desire and I am more about her. She tells me of certain people, "summer friends" as I refer to them, that I am "allowed" to have sex with. But she doesn't afford me the carte blanche that I do her in this regard. She would like me to consult with her before I have sex with another woman. I suppose that if I did have a encounter with a girl and then told her, she would ultimately be OK with it. In September while I was in TX,, she had sex with Dan and then Joey, and then a few days later with the random guy in the bar in the city. She told me then that I should have a another woman and that I deserve it. As you may have noticed, we have a term for this ....."We are comfortable with the double standard."It works for us. Some might say this is a cuckold relationship. I disagree. I have mostly always been attracted to more sexually active women. I find a women that knows her sexuality, and enjoys sex frequently and openly sexual to be very desirable, and usually, a very good lover. And frankly, while I don't usually get to watch my sexy little hotwife has sex with another man, I do so enjoy when she returns to me to briefly tell me of the encounter and I am presented with a very sexy, horny and desirable women who wants me so. Did I mention that I really like the "sloppy" part too?

So as I sit here ready to continue with my list of projects today, I think of the following things that I do enjoy about this path we have chosen for us.

1. Ally does not play with others regularly.
2. Ally is highly selective as to her choice of partners.
3. I have no big desire to be with another woman at this point. I may just not have met one as of late that rings my bells the way Ally does for me.
4. I enjoy when Ally finds a new friend.
5. With a curious blend of excitement, jealousy and arousal I watch her kiss another man, whether for the first or numerous times.
6. I enjoy when Ally meets alone with her new friend.
7. I really enjoy hearing of Ally's encounter with another man in a hotel or some other place. I enjoy hearing of their passion, of her embracing him, feeling his cock, taking in her mouth, spreading her legs for him and taking his hard cock inside of her.
8. I like when she cums with another man.
9. I like sliding my hard cock inside her after she has fucked another guy and feeling that hot wet cum filled pussy around my cock.
10. And yes, I do so love to watch, listen and participate when she is with another guy.