"We are comfortable with the double standard."
As many of you probably have noticed, some have commented on and yet others have inquired about by way of e-mail, Ally did and does continue to state this about our HW relationship. Sometime back in October, occasional reader and commentator Merlin asked how Ally feels about me with another woman. I just reread my response and thought it relevant to the "double standard" issue.
That is a good question. Ally has responded to that question a number of different ways. I have heard that 1) I can have sex with who ever I want, 2) nobody and 3) a pre agreed and identified person(s) that we already know. I guess I can, but it really doesn't matter. I have little interest in being with other women sexually. Sure I look. I even talk. Hell, I even dance and flirt. But, in my first marriage, I behaved very poorly, and probably slept with nearly as many women after I was married than I had before I was married. That is not the case this time. Frankly, Ally is all the woman I can handle at the moment. ;) Of course, should we get together with a cute couple that wants to play, that is a different story.
I liked Merlin's response to my answer.A good answer--if your pleasure comes from watching her enjoy sex with others, her policy toward your outside activities is irrelevant.
4 comments:
Bacon really doesn't seem all that interested at playing either. Unless it is with another cute couple...hmmm!! I see a common thread here!! ;-)
Interesting to see you've given this a bit more thought . . . and I appreciate that my comments have been thought-provoking.
While most of our play has been together as a swinging couple; it is hot to watch SW getting fucked. While I am not a "creame pie" man, the after taste is a turn on. We have had a few MFM threesomes and I have enjoyed those as much as our FMF threesomes.
excellent answer!!
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